It’s your girl Afifah, back with another post! Lately, we have been watching TED talk videos and those videos introduce people that are passionate about a certain topic that has made them come alive. Some of the people reading this blog might be thinking about why I said “alive”, I don’t actually mean bring you to life. I used alive as a metaphor and in simple terms it means that you’re so passionate about a certain topic that it becomes part of you, at least, that's what it means for me. So as I was saying before, we were watching TED talk videos of peopling telling us about what makes them alive and out of all the ones I watched, one of them stood out to me, the video I watched really made me start thinking.
A TED talk video that stuck to me was introduced by Caroline Paul and she talked about females being just as equal as men. While she was talking, I could see the passion in her eyes and I could see how it reallyIdDMBWb2Z_s affected her. Caroline started by talking about how she first time she joined the firefighting squad, People would always question why a women would join something “manly” but she proved them wrong by showing she was just as great as the men in the department and if not, better. During the the talk, Caroline was encouraging parents with daughters to let them be adventurous in order to gain bravery, in order to be just as “brave as boys.” Every single word Caroline said made me feel strongly about equality and I thought, why not do a project on gender equality?
I never really put my mind to equality when I was younger, I always thought that everyone was treated the same, until now. Now I always pay attention to the little things men do for women because they think they can’t handle the pressure. Some of the little things that annoy me is men carrying “heavy” bags for women because they think women wouldn’t be able to handle the weight and to paying for the foods in restaurants because it isn’t manly for a man to let a women pay. I know these reasons are stupid but they always seem to make me mad. As nice as everything is, I’m pretty sure us females are strong enough to handle ourselves.
Now, I know I sound biased because I’m a women but I feel strongly about all gender stereotypes. I just can’t seem to get them, it’s 2017 and yet, we still have to follow all these rules about how a person should be. These stereotypes are inaccurate about an individual person and sometimes it can be offending. If we are not what society wants us to be than we are looked down upon, which is extremely saddening because it basically says that a person can not be who they truly are. Maybe doing a project about gender stereotypes won’t change some of the people’s views or thoughts about a person should be but at least I’ll know that I tried my very best and that’s enough to make me happy.
